I have lot of foreskin on my part. My friends advise, I should get it circumcised. Need advise.??
Question: The reason my friends give is, sexual pleasure for you and your partners increases a lot. The ejaculation throw is better and women enjoys throw rather than small dripping .
Hygenically, it is good.
On the other hand if even I keep my foreskin stretched for a while, the inside portion starts paining. I don't know how I'll be able to live with a circumscised one.
I need your suggestions. What is your experience with a circumcised one ? Would you recommend me go for it ?
Answers: Many of those claims that your friend's gave are false. Studies have proved that. Circumcision is a traditionally Jewish and Muslim procedure, although it was introduced and encouraged to the Western, developed world as a way to stop masturbation, especially with the help of Dr. Kellogg. (see link 1) However, although scientific studies have discovered that circumcision harms masturbation by up to over 60% (2), needless to say, it doesn’t completely stop masturbation. Many circumcised guys find it more convenient to use a commercial lubricant as a result (3) since the typically moist foreskin that is like the eyelids is not present to rub the glans with (4).
Most developed nations quickly rejected circumcision after noticing its ineffectiveness against masturbation, and as a result the United States remains the last developed nation doing it to a significant percentage of newborns. (5) This was done as a result of the for-profit American health care system promoting myths about benefits of circumcision (6), such preventing penile cancer (6a, 6b), preventing HIV (6c, 6d) despite the USA being the developed nation with the highest HIV rates and circumcision rates (6e, 5), and preventing STDs (6d, 6f). As a result, circumcision is now brings in hundreds of millions of dollars to doctors and the American health system. (7)
However, circumcision has been becoming less popular as years have passed by. In the 1960s over 90% of guys were circumcised in the USA, now circumcision rates are as low as 14% in some states. (8) More and more parents are discovering that circumcision carries more risks than benefits, and realize that by leaving their sons uncircumcised, they have the choice of choosing what they’d like, since the surgery is irreversible.
Circumcision risks include the loss of sexual pleasure according to multiple studies (2, 9, 10, 11). Those studies take into effect many sensation points, including the foreskin, and they involve many participants. There have been other studies that claim no difference, but they don’t even take into effect the nerve endings on the foreskin, which as seen in one study, are some of the most sensitive points on the penis (10). One study even found an increase in erectile dysfunction rates after circumcision (10a). In another study, it was found that females ended up reaching orgasm with and preferring uncircumcised males in 9 out of 10 cases (10b). In addition, circumcision is extremely painful on newborns (12, 13, 14), and you risk many bad conditions, such as a buried penis when too much foreskin is removed and limits the size of the penis (15), or adhesions or skin bridges that develop from the head to the shaft when the skin heals after the surgery (16), meatal stenosis [occurs in up to 10% of circumcised males!] when the opening of the penis becomes irritated from too much exposure and rubbing and begins to close up (17), and meatal ulcers (18). All those risks are, of course, not including the possibility of having too much skin removed, which can cause discomfort during erections due to lack of skin to allow the penis to expand, and could consequently cause a hairy penis by pulling pubic hair and skin to the shaft. Often a circumcision scar develops around the penis after circumcision. In addition, circumcision has negative effects on breastfeeding. (18)
To conclude, here is a link that describes the anatomy of the foreskin (19) and the development of the foreskin with infants, a link especially helpful for parents (19a). Ultimately, one survey found that although uncircumcised guys are a bit more satisfied percentage-wise, it’s within the margin of error. (20) The only difference is that those unsatisfied uncircumcised guys can simply get circumcised and end up satisfied either way. In addition, in one survey it was found that up to half of circumcised guys expressed concerns on wishing to have had the choice themselves. (21) That, along with the risks and negative effects that are being seen more with the help of the Internet, may be what is bringing down circumcision rates.
I'm uncircumcised and I've never had any problems with it, and as long as I don't need to get circumcised for medical reasons (which is highly unlikely) I'm not going to get it done. There's nothing wrong with having a lot of foreskin as long as you can pull your foreskin back and expose the glans (penis head) easily and comfortably.
Honestly, it might feel better if you just stayed uncircumcised. There are lots of nerve endings in the foreskin that are removed during a circumcision, and these nerve endings can contribute to sexual sensitivity (link 1). Also several studies seem to indicate that the foreskin may actually be beneficial to the sexual satisfaction/pleasure of not only the man, but the woman as well (links 2, 3, 4).
And hygiene of the uncircumcised penis is very easy. During a shower/bath, just pull back the foreskin and wash the area under it with water and a mild soap like any other part of your body, that's it (link 5). So the hygiene reason is a stupid argument unless you plan on being really really lazy about your overall hygiene.
So as long as your foreskin's working normally, you maintain good genital hygiene (which is quick and easy), and you practice safe sex (when the time comes), then there's really no good reason to get circumcised unless you're willing to sacrifice sensitivity for simply looks (which isn't really a good reason). The remaining links might be worth looking at, as they have more discussions and opinions on this topic.
Well, I'm female so I'll give you my perspective.
Circumcised is nicer to look at. BUT that's just my opinion. I'm sure there are women out there who prefer uncircumcised.
Medically: circumcised does offer more feeling to the man during sex. It's easier to clean when bathing. Circumcised men have a lower risk of penil cancer.
Yes, it's gonna hurt for a few days. But from all I've heard, I can't see why everyone doesn't have it done. I know it is changing the body in a way that's unnatural but I think it's worth the benefits. Just my opinion!!
Your friend is probably cut and trying to lead you down the BS trail. He'll never feel the sliding action-one that the gals enjoy since they are roughed up by a non-sliding shaft and glands. AS FAR AS EJACULATION- I'd rather have a skin that caused a great suction that the gals WILLLL FEEL and enjoy alot than depend on having a 5yard shot everytime, which does not happen. put on a rubber with a bit of lube in the tip-then pull the tip and feel the suction-it happens just like that-really does!
You stretching your skin is a lot harsher than it sliding inside itself and self lubing with your our pre-ejac. In time and use-your skin will adapt.
AND THE WORST OF ALL_ All those nerves that will be removed when you get cut, never to get back-even when you restore. But then your friend never mentioned the rough texture you get on your glands from all the years of rubbing in the open environment.
Look up FORESKIN RESTORATION on Google. You'll see photos of cuts and uncuts. It will also give you reasons for why cut males are trying to restore. I know first hand. I fully restored my foreskin, I have gained a lot of sensitivety in the glands-they stay moist and softer, but all those nerves in the skin removed are gone forever. I have fooled all my docs and the gals I am with enjoy it EMENSELY.
Tell your friend to restore and he'll be quiet about what he doesn't know!
If it's attached under the pee hole that's your frenulum and totally normal. If it's tight stretch it. See the first link for instructions. If the attachment is elsewhere then it's a small adhesion that can be separated slowly if you are careful or a doctor can do it under local with a blunt probe.
Circumcision is complete overkill and should not even be considered at this stage.
Source(s):
http://f19.parsimony.net/forum33578/mess...
http://www.circumstitions.com/index.html
http://www.circinfo.org/
http://www.historyofcircumcision.net/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.o...
http://www.cirp.org/
www.jackinworld.com
I hope you know what foreskin is and its importance.
Sincerely, I didn't understand what you meant. First you talk about ...a lot of foreskin - that let us think about your foreskin as a large and long one - but, then you affirm you can't roll it easily - and that means it is tight and short, instead!! Anyway, before circumcision - which is a destructive surgery - try to clarify the question and apart your friend's chat, consider the foreskin a natural and useful part of our penis.
IAs a woman, I must say I much prefer a circumcised partner, mainly for reasons of health and personal hygiene. My husband was circumcised as an adult, not long before we married. He believes it has improved his sex drive and performance and wishes he had been done earler in life. The op. was day surgery with local anaesthetic and recovery was straightforward, so I'd certainy recommend you go for it.
Take my advice - get it cicumcized.
Less sensitive, hence extended action.
No stretch, no pain.
Gets better looking.
As per studies, safer as less chance of HIV / AIDS
Easier to keep clean ( great for an Oral).
Can't say much on throw but that I think is a boy thing to brag about.
I was cut at 18 and would never want a foreskin back! Being cut is cleaner, healthier, Sex is 100% better, look better and you have a much lower chance of aquiring STD's and HIV! Go for it! You will never regret it! Don't listen to the fools that spew all the BS virtues of the foreskin they have no clue what the talk about!
mushrooms are hot.
i think u should get it circumcised my boyfriend had his circumcised and it still looked good if u get it circumcised it just looks how its supposed to look and trust me ur girlfriends mouth will still be on it
You can get it partially circumcised, but if in doubt, try stretching it up with olive oil, the trick is to keep it clean under the skin, so you do not get infection (there is a grove, it should be expose while you stretch the skin up, and this is the area that need proper cleaning with soap and water regularly). If already infected see a doctor, soon.
You wrote, or you were in formed sexual pleasure for you and your partners increases a lot .
This may be true or may not be so, depends on the two people only, we are individual and we respond to sensation in different way.
You tell us, On the other hand if even I keep my foreskin stretched for a while, the inside portion starts paining .
If after few months of oil treatment if you still experience the pain then you do have a choice of full or partial circumcision. The choice is yours.
See a urologist, have the condition evaluated, there may be something else behind the pain.
Advice of your friends r perfect. Get it done in a good hospital & remain there for a week. Orgasm is best reached with circucision only. Your wife will always be satisfied & happy with you & never would think of divorce.
take advise of doctor ,is it must? wash it regularly,prevent fungal infection.uncleaned penile has at risk of penile cancer.
Don't even think about getting half the skin on your penis removed. It's all stripped back anyway before you use it.
It is important for you to feel good and I can not say that I agree with your friend. My husband does have the foreskin and so do both of my sons. Cultural belief and differences provide many different opinons from people however, do what is right for you. If you do experience pain, I would consult a medical doctor and discuss your options. Good Luck!
P.S. Being that I am a woman I have questioned a-lot of men and they feel comfortable with what they have had since their infancy. I think your friend should leave you alone and stop missinforming you!
It is terribly painful I hear, for weeks. Don't do it. That's not why. It's because it's natural. Just because 80% of men have surgically altered privates does not mean it's natural!!! many hot girls like uncircumsised men and many women wont notice either way, if you are hard. Your true love will dig you no matter what. Despite what porn tells us most women do not care all that much about whether your *** flies or flows. Don't do it 1 it'd be incredibly painful, and what, to have fancy ejaculation throws?!! 2 Its expensive 3 medical errors !!!!4 accept your body 5 you are a unique man, stay that way!!!
Do not pay attention to your friends. You were born with foreskin that serves a purpose - there is no medical reason to mutilate your penis. The vast majority of men in the world, now and throughout history, have lived healthy, normal lives with their penises intact.
Please read information about the purpose of the forskin and the process of circumcision:
Hygenically, it is good.
On the other hand if even I keep my foreskin stretched for a while, the inside portion starts paining. I don't know how I'll be able to live with a circumscised one.
I need your suggestions. What is your experience with a circumcised one ? Would you recommend me go for it ?
Answers: Many of those claims that your friend's gave are false. Studies have proved that. Circumcision is a traditionally Jewish and Muslim procedure, although it was introduced and encouraged to the Western, developed world as a way to stop masturbation, especially with the help of Dr. Kellogg. (see link 1) However, although scientific studies have discovered that circumcision harms masturbation by up to over 60% (2), needless to say, it doesn’t completely stop masturbation. Many circumcised guys find it more convenient to use a commercial lubricant as a result (3) since the typically moist foreskin that is like the eyelids is not present to rub the glans with (4).
Most developed nations quickly rejected circumcision after noticing its ineffectiveness against masturbation, and as a result the United States remains the last developed nation doing it to a significant percentage of newborns. (5) This was done as a result of the for-profit American health care system promoting myths about benefits of circumcision (6), such preventing penile cancer (6a, 6b), preventing HIV (6c, 6d) despite the USA being the developed nation with the highest HIV rates and circumcision rates (6e, 5), and preventing STDs (6d, 6f). As a result, circumcision is now brings in hundreds of millions of dollars to doctors and the American health system. (7)
However, circumcision has been becoming less popular as years have passed by. In the 1960s over 90% of guys were circumcised in the USA, now circumcision rates are as low as 14% in some states. (8) More and more parents are discovering that circumcision carries more risks than benefits, and realize that by leaving their sons uncircumcised, they have the choice of choosing what they’d like, since the surgery is irreversible.
Circumcision risks include the loss of sexual pleasure according to multiple studies (2, 9, 10, 11). Those studies take into effect many sensation points, including the foreskin, and they involve many participants. There have been other studies that claim no difference, but they don’t even take into effect the nerve endings on the foreskin, which as seen in one study, are some of the most sensitive points on the penis (10). One study even found an increase in erectile dysfunction rates after circumcision (10a). In another study, it was found that females ended up reaching orgasm with and preferring uncircumcised males in 9 out of 10 cases (10b). In addition, circumcision is extremely painful on newborns (12, 13, 14), and you risk many bad conditions, such as a buried penis when too much foreskin is removed and limits the size of the penis (15), or adhesions or skin bridges that develop from the head to the shaft when the skin heals after the surgery (16), meatal stenosis [occurs in up to 10% of circumcised males!] when the opening of the penis becomes irritated from too much exposure and rubbing and begins to close up (17), and meatal ulcers (18). All those risks are, of course, not including the possibility of having too much skin removed, which can cause discomfort during erections due to lack of skin to allow the penis to expand, and could consequently cause a hairy penis by pulling pubic hair and skin to the shaft. Often a circumcision scar develops around the penis after circumcision. In addition, circumcision has negative effects on breastfeeding. (18)
To conclude, here is a link that describes the anatomy of the foreskin (19) and the development of the foreskin with infants, a link especially helpful for parents (19a). Ultimately, one survey found that although uncircumcised guys are a bit more satisfied percentage-wise, it’s within the margin of error. (20) The only difference is that those unsatisfied uncircumcised guys can simply get circumcised and end up satisfied either way. In addition, in one survey it was found that up to half of circumcised guys expressed concerns on wishing to have had the choice themselves. (21) That, along with the risks and negative effects that are being seen more with the help of the Internet, may be what is bringing down circumcision rates.
I'm uncircumcised and I've never had any problems with it, and as long as I don't need to get circumcised for medical reasons (which is highly unlikely) I'm not going to get it done. There's nothing wrong with having a lot of foreskin as long as you can pull your foreskin back and expose the glans (penis head) easily and comfortably.
Honestly, it might feel better if you just stayed uncircumcised. There are lots of nerve endings in the foreskin that are removed during a circumcision, and these nerve endings can contribute to sexual sensitivity (link 1). Also several studies seem to indicate that the foreskin may actually be beneficial to the sexual satisfaction/pleasure of not only the man, but the woman as well (links 2, 3, 4).
And hygiene of the uncircumcised penis is very easy. During a shower/bath, just pull back the foreskin and wash the area under it with water and a mild soap like any other part of your body, that's it (link 5). So the hygiene reason is a stupid argument unless you plan on being really really lazy about your overall hygiene.
So as long as your foreskin's working normally, you maintain good genital hygiene (which is quick and easy), and you practice safe sex (when the time comes), then there's really no good reason to get circumcised unless you're willing to sacrifice sensitivity for simply looks (which isn't really a good reason). The remaining links might be worth looking at, as they have more discussions and opinions on this topic.
Well, I'm female so I'll give you my perspective.
Circumcised is nicer to look at. BUT that's just my opinion. I'm sure there are women out there who prefer uncircumcised.
Medically: circumcised does offer more feeling to the man during sex. It's easier to clean when bathing. Circumcised men have a lower risk of penil cancer.
Yes, it's gonna hurt for a few days. But from all I've heard, I can't see why everyone doesn't have it done. I know it is changing the body in a way that's unnatural but I think it's worth the benefits. Just my opinion!!
Your friend is probably cut and trying to lead you down the BS trail. He'll never feel the sliding action-one that the gals enjoy since they are roughed up by a non-sliding shaft and glands. AS FAR AS EJACULATION- I'd rather have a skin that caused a great suction that the gals WILLLL FEEL and enjoy alot than depend on having a 5yard shot everytime, which does not happen. put on a rubber with a bit of lube in the tip-then pull the tip and feel the suction-it happens just like that-really does!
You stretching your skin is a lot harsher than it sliding inside itself and self lubing with your our pre-ejac. In time and use-your skin will adapt.
AND THE WORST OF ALL_ All those nerves that will be removed when you get cut, never to get back-even when you restore. But then your friend never mentioned the rough texture you get on your glands from all the years of rubbing in the open environment.
Look up FORESKIN RESTORATION on Google. You'll see photos of cuts and uncuts. It will also give you reasons for why cut males are trying to restore. I know first hand. I fully restored my foreskin, I have gained a lot of sensitivety in the glands-they stay moist and softer, but all those nerves in the skin removed are gone forever. I have fooled all my docs and the gals I am with enjoy it EMENSELY.
Tell your friend to restore and he'll be quiet about what he doesn't know!
If it's attached under the pee hole that's your frenulum and totally normal. If it's tight stretch it. See the first link for instructions. If the attachment is elsewhere then it's a small adhesion that can be separated slowly if you are careful or a doctor can do it under local with a blunt probe.
Circumcision is complete overkill and should not even be considered at this stage.
Source(s):
http://f19.parsimony.net/forum33578/mess...
http://www.circumstitions.com/index.html
http://www.circinfo.org/
http://www.historyofcircumcision.net/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.o...
http://www.cirp.org/
www.jackinworld.com
I hope you know what foreskin is and its importance.
Sincerely, I didn't understand what you meant. First you talk about ...a lot of foreskin - that let us think about your foreskin as a large and long one - but, then you affirm you can't roll it easily - and that means it is tight and short, instead!! Anyway, before circumcision - which is a destructive surgery - try to clarify the question and apart your friend's chat, consider the foreskin a natural and useful part of our penis.
IAs a woman, I must say I much prefer a circumcised partner, mainly for reasons of health and personal hygiene. My husband was circumcised as an adult, not long before we married. He believes it has improved his sex drive and performance and wishes he had been done earler in life. The op. was day surgery with local anaesthetic and recovery was straightforward, so I'd certainy recommend you go for it.
Take my advice - get it cicumcized.
Less sensitive, hence extended action.
No stretch, no pain.
Gets better looking.
As per studies, safer as less chance of HIV / AIDS
Easier to keep clean ( great for an Oral).
Can't say much on throw but that I think is a boy thing to brag about.
I was cut at 18 and would never want a foreskin back! Being cut is cleaner, healthier, Sex is 100% better, look better and you have a much lower chance of aquiring STD's and HIV! Go for it! You will never regret it! Don't listen to the fools that spew all the BS virtues of the foreskin they have no clue what the talk about!
mushrooms are hot.
i think u should get it circumcised my boyfriend had his circumcised and it still looked good if u get it circumcised it just looks how its supposed to look and trust me ur girlfriends mouth will still be on it
You can get it partially circumcised, but if in doubt, try stretching it up with olive oil, the trick is to keep it clean under the skin, so you do not get infection (there is a grove, it should be expose while you stretch the skin up, and this is the area that need proper cleaning with soap and water regularly). If already infected see a doctor, soon.
You wrote, or you were in formed sexual pleasure for you and your partners increases a lot .
This may be true or may not be so, depends on the two people only, we are individual and we respond to sensation in different way.
You tell us, On the other hand if even I keep my foreskin stretched for a while, the inside portion starts paining .
If after few months of oil treatment if you still experience the pain then you do have a choice of full or partial circumcision. The choice is yours.
See a urologist, have the condition evaluated, there may be something else behind the pain.
Advice of your friends r perfect. Get it done in a good hospital & remain there for a week. Orgasm is best reached with circucision only. Your wife will always be satisfied & happy with you & never would think of divorce.
take advise of doctor ,is it must? wash it regularly,prevent fungal infection.uncleaned penile has at risk of penile cancer.
Don't even think about getting half the skin on your penis removed. It's all stripped back anyway before you use it.
It is important for you to feel good and I can not say that I agree with your friend. My husband does have the foreskin and so do both of my sons. Cultural belief and differences provide many different opinons from people however, do what is right for you. If you do experience pain, I would consult a medical doctor and discuss your options. Good Luck!
P.S. Being that I am a woman I have questioned a-lot of men and they feel comfortable with what they have had since their infancy. I think your friend should leave you alone and stop missinforming you!
It is terribly painful I hear, for weeks. Don't do it. That's not why. It's because it's natural. Just because 80% of men have surgically altered privates does not mean it's natural!!! many hot girls like uncircumsised men and many women wont notice either way, if you are hard. Your true love will dig you no matter what. Despite what porn tells us most women do not care all that much about whether your *** flies or flows. Don't do it 1 it'd be incredibly painful, and what, to have fancy ejaculation throws?!! 2 Its expensive 3 medical errors !!!!4 accept your body 5 you are a unique man, stay that way!!!
Do not pay attention to your friends. You were born with foreskin that serves a purpose - there is no medical reason to mutilate your penis. The vast majority of men in the world, now and throughout history, have lived healthy, normal lives with their penises intact.
Please read information about the purpose of the forskin and the process of circumcision:
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