Cutting problems..??
Question: ok...it been a tough period and i just found out a few unpleasant things, one is that a suicidal-bisex-guy is in love with me (not that i have anything about gays) and another is that my friend cutts herself...
Today I did it too.. I dont know how I feel about it...I felt like I really wanted to do it but still I felt awful after...
I dont think I'll stop..I dont even know if I want to...
Plz...wht u think 'bout it?
Answers: I am also considered a cutter . My issues with Self-mutilation began when I was 5 years old. I am now 39. This is a Very VERY serious condition. You need to get help as soon as possible. Tell your parents right now. You need to get into see an MD if possible right now. You need help. This is a sign of self hatred. There is hope and you can be free of ever thinking this way again through treatment from Md's and therapy.
I beg you to take this seriously. Take care of yourself. You are a beautiful human being and let me tell you there is so much help in the world you will be surprised. Also, I'll you would feel so great if you could find help for your friend too. Your friend has a mental health disorder. It doesn't make her a bad person. Maybe you could attend group therapy together?
A great organization that can help is NAMI. I think if you just enter a search on the computer for NAMI you will find the sight.
God Bless you sweety and get well.
SarahJane
See self harm, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris in section 16.
plz you and your friends go get help!! cutting is NOT GOOD! something could happen and you could really f*ck up and cut something that...well shouldn't have been cut. and if your doin it cause your friends are doin it then that's just pure stupidity.be yourself,don't try to fit in by doin what everyone else is doin.be yourself.
Practice just for the day to not cut. And ask your self if you feel better not cutting and hurting your body. You have the answer to your own situation. Be kind to your body.
Peace and Blessings
This site has a lot of useful links:
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/c...
Also, consider giving this number a call...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for cutters
Cutting is a serious problem. It sounds to me like you did it because your friend did it, not because you have had a tough period .
Your friends are the ones who really needed help, and you brought yourself into that group. If you think you'll continue, it is something that needs psychiatric care.
Tell your teacher and your parents and get counseling, before it gets any worse, and i suggest doing the same for your Friend, and the boy who is suicidal.
I think that your kind of trying something new out. It's a serious thing, and right now, if you don't think that you did it for any reason, then you should be there for your friend. But if you are doing it bc of depression or something, I would tell someone and maybe you and your friend can talk together about what it's like and maybe come to a conclusion that it does not help that much.....I still cut myself and sometimes it's helpful to me, but people tell me that it doesn't help and it's all in my head.
a person who hurts u is not ur friend at all.
I have never cut myself, but have often spanked myself with harsh instruments, and I had anxiety and thought I was nuts, and I was addicted to it and could not stop, and I had to come to peace with it that it was who I was. Anxiety about it only makes it worse.
Stop hanging around your friend for now. BEing around her will convince your mind that its okay to cut yourself. Before you startg doing that think about it hard. How is it helping you? Its just making the matter worse. Cutting yourself is sometimes like an addiction and you need to stop it soon!
And as for your boyfriend... If you want to get him to a therapist thats okay, but if not; stay away for a while. You have enough stress as it is. Right?
i dont know how severe the cut is but I went through a two year stage of self abusing myself and now, a few years on and my arms are still completely scarred. I have seen doctors about correcting it but it will cost a fortune!!! I have been on many dates with women too, but as soon as they see the scars it is like they cant leave quick enough - too much baggage and its a horrible look.
Dont live to regret it and dont do it.
Today I did it too.. I dont know how I feel about it...I felt like I really wanted to do it but still I felt awful after...
I dont think I'll stop..I dont even know if I want to...
Plz...wht u think 'bout it?
Answers: I am also considered a cutter . My issues with Self-mutilation began when I was 5 years old. I am now 39. This is a Very VERY serious condition. You need to get help as soon as possible. Tell your parents right now. You need to get into see an MD if possible right now. You need help. This is a sign of self hatred. There is hope and you can be free of ever thinking this way again through treatment from Md's and therapy.
I beg you to take this seriously. Take care of yourself. You are a beautiful human being and let me tell you there is so much help in the world you will be surprised. Also, I'll you would feel so great if you could find help for your friend too. Your friend has a mental health disorder. It doesn't make her a bad person. Maybe you could attend group therapy together?
A great organization that can help is NAMI. I think if you just enter a search on the computer for NAMI you will find the sight.
God Bless you sweety and get well.
SarahJane
See self harm, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris in section 16.
plz you and your friends go get help!! cutting is NOT GOOD! something could happen and you could really f*ck up and cut something that...well shouldn't have been cut. and if your doin it cause your friends are doin it then that's just pure stupidity.be yourself,don't try to fit in by doin what everyone else is doin.be yourself.
Practice just for the day to not cut. And ask your self if you feel better not cutting and hurting your body. You have the answer to your own situation. Be kind to your body.
Peace and Blessings
This site has a lot of useful links:
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/c...
Also, consider giving this number a call...
Self Harm Hotline
1-800-DONTCUT
Help for cutters
Cutting is a serious problem. It sounds to me like you did it because your friend did it, not because you have had a tough period .
Your friends are the ones who really needed help, and you brought yourself into that group. If you think you'll continue, it is something that needs psychiatric care.
Tell your teacher and your parents and get counseling, before it gets any worse, and i suggest doing the same for your Friend, and the boy who is suicidal.
I think that your kind of trying something new out. It's a serious thing, and right now, if you don't think that you did it for any reason, then you should be there for your friend. But if you are doing it bc of depression or something, I would tell someone and maybe you and your friend can talk together about what it's like and maybe come to a conclusion that it does not help that much.....I still cut myself and sometimes it's helpful to me, but people tell me that it doesn't help and it's all in my head.
a person who hurts u is not ur friend at all.
I have never cut myself, but have often spanked myself with harsh instruments, and I had anxiety and thought I was nuts, and I was addicted to it and could not stop, and I had to come to peace with it that it was who I was. Anxiety about it only makes it worse.
Stop hanging around your friend for now. BEing around her will convince your mind that its okay to cut yourself. Before you startg doing that think about it hard. How is it helping you? Its just making the matter worse. Cutting yourself is sometimes like an addiction and you need to stop it soon!
And as for your boyfriend... If you want to get him to a therapist thats okay, but if not; stay away for a while. You have enough stress as it is. Right?
i dont know how severe the cut is but I went through a two year stage of self abusing myself and now, a few years on and my arms are still completely scarred. I have seen doctors about correcting it but it will cost a fortune!!! I have been on many dates with women too, but as soon as they see the scars it is like they cant leave quick enough - too much baggage and its a horrible look.
Dont live to regret it and dont do it.
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